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Friday, January 20, 2017

these days

I have so many thoughts swirling in my head, but, lately, no time to organize them. Among other things, I started subbing at Layla's school. And so I have been there a few afternoons each week. But it's been working out nicely. I don't have to sub every day. And when I do, Layla can always come with me and since E works from home he is able to get kids off the bus if I'm not back in time.

I've also started a second round of organizing the house. When we moved in we quickly found spots and put stuff away. But now that we've been in the house for awhile, it is time to better organize things like the pantry, and basically every other closet in the house.

Right after the new year we were able to meet up with our good friends who were in town. They were our second family when we first moved to washington. I don't know how I would've survived the first years in WA without our swapping of kids and meeting up at parks and museums and gatherings for holidays. We love their family! And look at how cute and little our kids were back then (plus little Kiera).


We have each added kids to our family and grown up quite a bit since we last saw each other so it was wonderful to catch up with them. I hope it's not too long before we see them again.




Perry is handling his work and demands a little better now. As in, still whining like crazy the whole time while doing it, but will try in short bursts when properly motivated without outright refusing or becoming aggressive and destructive. This is good! I am especially proud of the little guy for taking out his homework and doing some tracing each day after school (pretty much) independently. Wahoo! We are also trying to sneak in more time and focus at home on learning his letters. Oh, my greatest goal for him would be to learn to read some day! I love this boy and I'm proud of all his growth and hard work.


During the break, I was lucky enough to get to take these guys to the mall (the first teenage initiated trip to the mall). Of course, we had to make a stop at Sodalicious.


Layla was also very excited for her first cousin sleepover. Macie was coming to spend the night so a few days earlier Layla worked on her plan of what they would do together during the sleep over. Where does she get this list making from?? ;) ;) I'm glad she's so much like me in so many ways.


A pillow fight at the sleep over was a must.




Layla has been into book making lately. I get to staple pages together all the time.


We got to be there to celebrate Grayson's 1st birthday. And this is the only picture I got from it--Perry helping him open his gift from us. On a related note, if you ever want to practice your skills of persuasion and patience then take Perry shopping for a present for someone else. :) Let's just say, my boy knows what he wants to get, and it's usually not within budget.


We have had many evenings of wrestling around here the last few weeks. A princess in a superman cape and optimus prime make make a great team against a strong daddy.  






Before they went back to school, I took these great boys hiking.



It's tradition now to balance on this rock.






Perry took a lesson from Layla and tried his hand at the selfie during FHE the night we set our goals for our new theme.



He even captured a few shots of some others.



Kyler got his "soccer haircut" at sports clips and then Kacin got his haircut from dad at home.


Kacin LOVES that I assign him homework each day to challenge him.


 Layla started soccer! She has been so excited to play on a team like her big brothers.

Layla also passed a level at swim school!


She loved that she got to ring the bell and the whole pool cheered for her.


My amazing 97 year old Grandpa was moved into a hospice facility. My little family went to visit him. While we were there we got to see my Grandpa surrounded by three of his four sons. And one daughter-in-law. Beautiful moment.



Kacin is on the student council at school and they went on a field trip to Feed My Starving Children. Our little group rocked it and packed 24 boxes out of the 102 in that hour.


Kyler woke up early all week long and worked hard at school soccer tryouts. It paid off because he made the team!!! We are so excited for him. We celebrated with a cake. Layla and I had so much cake decorating skill you probably can't even tell which picture is the cake and which is the actual soccer ball.

                       

Brotherly love at the celebration.






Wednesday, January 11, 2017

2017 family theme

 

In 2016, our family's focus was the Six B's spoken about by Gordon B. Hinckley. We recited the 6 B's every monday night at family home evening and tried to incorporate them into some of our lessons and discussions throughout the year. We started the year off strong with our family goals, but after a few months in I think we all forgot that we were even planning on setting goals that year! I know that when we were deciding on our 2017 theme, for the life of me, I could not remember if we had even set any family goals in 2016. Thank goodness for this blog so I could eventually go back and check to remember! Some years are better than others.

I sat down a few weeks ago to brainstorm my thoughts for our focus in 2017. After praying, I made a list of thoughts, words, and scriptures that came to my mind. My mind kept settling on something to do with the word "courage." Eric and I talked about a few different ideas. But it wasn't until the day before we presented our theme to our kiddos that we settled on a phrase and a scripture.

Our 2017 family focus is  Have Courage, and Be Kind
and Alma 53:20-21  
20 And they were all young men, and they were exceedingly valiant for courage, and also for strength and activity; but behold, this was not all—they were men who were true at all times in whatsoever thing they were entrusted.
 21 Yea, they were men of truth and soberness, for they had been taught to keep the commandments of God and to walk uprightly before him.
This phrase "Have courage and Be Kind" was the trendy latest-thing after the Cinderella movie came out so we hesitated to use it for fear it had been over used. We like the idea of carving our own path around here and not jumping on a bandwagon. But there was no way around it, the phrase was simple and to the point and exactly what we want to focus on this year.

Our goals this year are focused directly on this theme and have more to do with our character, our actions, and our thoughts.

Have Courage and Be Kind
2017 family goals

Have courage
-to try new things
-to stand for the right
-to be friendly
-to act
-to face your fears
-to be honest
-to show up
-to be involved
-to care
-to develop and share your talents
-to choose the unpopular, but right, choice
-to follow your heart
-to communicate clearly
-to look everyone in the eye
-to say “I’m sorry” or “I was wrong”

Be Kind
-notice others
-give compliments
-hold the door for others
-show empathy
-give hugs
-smile
-be generous
-show gratitude
-say please and thank you
-say “I’m sorry” and be quick to forgive
-stay calm
-use a pleasant tone of voice
-put others before yourself
-don’t argue
-assume everyone is trying their best
-give the benefit of the doubt
-to yourself

When we presented the theme to our kids and talked together about what it means, I also found this quote that I just love. I read that this was on the wall of Mother Teresa's home for children in Calcutta and it is based on writing published by Kent Keith. It's hanging on our quote board right now.

People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered.  
Forgive them anyway.If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives.  Be kind anyway.If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies. Succeed anyway.If you are honest and sincere people may deceive you. Be honest and sincere anyway.What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight. Create anyway.If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous. Be happy anyway.The good you do today, will often be forgotten. Do good anyway.Give the best you have, and it will never be enough. Give your best anyway.In the final analysis, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.

So there you have it. We are ready for 2017! 

Tuesday, January 10, 2017

az science center and the zoo

When Eric had some time off of work during the christmas break, we went on a few family outings.

We spent one morning at the arizona science center.



We also spent a day at the zoo.














You can't go to the zoo without heading to papago park and climbing hole in the rock.

I love how Perry saw the girls posing with their hands on their hips and had to copy them.












Monday, January 9, 2017

Out of the mouth of Layla

 

Just a few days after her first tooth came out (the tooth she let Kacin pull out!), she wiggled her second tooth right out.

 
I had this conversation with Layla the other day when it was time to clean her room.

Layla: When I'm a mom, I'm not going to clean.
Me: well, who will?
Layla: the husband


"Take a picture of my beard."
 
Layla is sooo excited to start soccer soon. She was asking me all sorts of questions about starting. My favorite question was this: "Is my soccer coach a huge human?" If she means, adult then the answer is yes. And I guess that also makes me a "huge human."

 
We watched Indiana Jones Raiders of the Lost Ark as a family. After one of the guys died in the cave Layla asked if he would become one of the bone "decorations " on the walls of the cave.