Brightly Living

Wednesday, August 16, 2017

yellow day



Every Friday in kindergarten is assigned a color. The children are encouraged to wear the color of the week and to bring a show and tell of the same color. 


Last week, the color was yellow. Layla found her only yellow shirt and then searched the house for a yellow show and tell. She decided to bring "Lemmie" (short for Lemon Meringue) the cabbage patch doll from my childhood. It made me happy to see my beloved doll loved by my sweet daughter.


When these two got off the bus that day, they both collapsed into the stairs and just laid there. I guess it had been a long week of school!


Perry came home with a stack of his work that day. This is still his answer to the question "what do you want to be when you grow up?" 



"A Perry."

That never gets old to me.:)

Tuesday, August 15, 2017

the great flood of 2017

"Emergency! Emergency!"
I ran upstairs at that call, somewhat doubtful of the call of "emergency".
Layla and Perry had been playing legos together in the loft.
I wondered if a lego car had broken and they needed help putting it back together...
But I followed their voices towards the bathroom.
It was quite the scene.
The water was rushing out of the faucet and overflowing in the sink.
The drain on the sink had been closed.
Layla had one of the bathroom drawers opened to show me that water had filled each and every one of the four drawers.






The floor was quickly transforming into a lake.



Perry had created the great bathroom flood of 2017.
I jumped into action.
Turn off the faucet. Release the drain. Take all of the floating toothbrushes, flossers, and hair ties out of the drawers. Scoop out the water from the drawers. Throw towels on the ground. etc, etc.





When Eric made it upstairs he gently yet firmly explained to the kids that we can't leave the water running and so on.
And that triggered Perry.
One minute later, when we couldn't find him, we realized he had run downstairs and turned the water on in that bathroom to create a second flood. Luckily, we found it and stopped it before any actual flooding happened.
But we still had a job on our hands upstairs.
The water had seeped out of the bathroom and soaked all of the carpet in the hallway and was making its way into the loft and into Perry's room.
We got to work with more towels, the carpet cleaner, and fans. We ended up pulling up the carpet to make sure we got everything nice and dry.



Fortunately, we do not believe this flood caused any major, lasting damage.
But we are taking out the drain stopper to prevent any further floods from occurring.

Saturday, August 12, 2017

living room wrestling



Some of my favorite moments, the ones that make my heart swell with contentment and love, are usually the unplanned and the simple things that just naturally happen.




I felt all full like that on a Saturday night. Nothing was planned. Kyler's friend, Ben, was hanging out at our house. Somehow the couch got pushed back and a wrestling match ensued. I sat on the couch with baby in my arms and my daughter snuggled by my side. Both of us quite entertained by the intense match on the carpet. We kept the score. 



Perry ran in and out of the match whenever he wanted to. Sometimes jumping on Ben's back to help Kyler. Sometimes pulling Kyler to help Ben. Sometimes just getting in the way.



I kept thinking how much Kacin would've loved this wrestling game. But he was away babysitting his cousins for the evening. I wished he was with us, but I was grateful for the valuable experiences he was having as a "babysitter".


Someone wasn't as impressed by the wrestling as I was...




It was an ordinary yet perfect evening







Thursday, August 10, 2017

hard work is a blessing



Life can change so swiftly. It is interesting to me how one day you can feel overwhelmed and sit down and write a list of reasons why you should go to therapy (and come up with 12 reasons, no less) and then a few days later, just like that, your world changes and life is better than it's ever been. Maybe you still should think about therapy, but, at the moment, everything is so right in the world your list doesn't much matter.

One week ago today my life did not get any easier. In fact, my load increased. But, you know what, my joy has increased tenfold. It seems, all of the better things happening in life actually take even more work. Hard work.

That's why I thought it was fitting that the articles to read this week for the article group I am a part of were all about work. I am looking forward to the discussion tonight when we meet, but these were some quotes that stood out to me from the three articles we were invited to read about work.

"The Principle Of Work" by F. David Stanley--

"Some 2,700 years ago, a Greek poet observed that “in front of excellence the immortal gods have put sweat, and long and steep is the way to it.” (Hesiod, Works and Days, 1. 287, as cited in John Bartlett, Familiar Quotations, 14th ed., Boston: Little, Brown and Co., 1968, p. 67.)"


"Hard work is a blessing of God. It involves going after it “with all your heart, might, mind and strength.” (D&C 4:2.) That alone is the difference between the average and the excellent."



"While serving as a mission president, many times missionaries would say to me, “But President, I want baptisms now.”
My answer was then and always will be, “You must work hard, be diligent, be humble, and exercise your prayers of faith.”"
"The prophet Alma said it very well while glorying in the success of Ammon and his brethren. He said, “Behold, they have labored exceedingly.” (Alma 29:15.)"
"Why Kids Need to Experience the Value of Hard Work" by Dave Ramsey and Rachel Cruze--             "Teaching a child to work is not child abuse."
"Another huge benefit of teaching a child the wonder of work is that she will tend to lose respect for people who refuse to work. Why is this good? It is good because you want your daughter to marry Mr. Right, not Mr. Lazy. We noticed quickly that our daughters (and our son) didn’t pursue relationships with people who didn’t know how to work. This is great news, because someday you may have grandkids, and you want both of their parents to be productive so your grandkids get to eat."
 "It was especially evident when their prayers included “Help us to have a fun day tomorrow and a fun day the day after that.” That little phrase hit me hard. Is our family so out of touch with others’ needs and so removed from thanking the Lord that the only place we need God to intervene is to guarantee our fun? Where had we gone wrong?
"Not only that, but we live in a culture full of cheap thrills and expensive entertainment that everyone feels like he or she must be a part of. You don’t take an annual trip to Disneyland? Your poor kids! You aren’t going to spend the day at a trampoline park? Bummer! Your kids don’t have iPhones or iTouches yet? So sad! You aren’t going away for the three-day weekend? What will you do at home?
Fun is a drug. Take a little and you want more. Take enough and it no longer satisfies. You need bigger, better, more expensive activities to fill you up. The simple moments are no longer satisfactory, and the big events don’t seem all that big anymore. Fun is a junk food diet that leaves you giddy for a moment, then hollow and wanting more."

"As I read biographies and listen to interviews about successful people who have changed the world, there seems to be a common thread in what they learned as a children and adolescents: hard work."
A few more pictures to brighten your day...






Wednesday, August 9, 2017

splish splash I was takin' a bath

It was a party in the bathroom the other night when it was bathtime. Everyone wanted to help.








Layla then set out this outfit to put her in. ;)


Happy baby!


Tuesday, August 8, 2017

baby love

We are in heaven around here. 



We are all smitten by this little newborn. 


Let me tell you, she is getting a lot of love.







She has a lot of people at the ready to feed her, snuggle her, sing to her, and love on her.










Sweetness.