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Monday, March 17, 2014
our trip day 5, the rest of the day
Wednesday, March 12, 2014
These Days
Perry asked to hold Layla's hand while we walked him out to the bus one day. It was the sweetest thing. As soon as I pulled out my phone to take a picture, Layla pulled away.
It is amazing how much easier it is to keep your house clean when you have less stuff. Since Christmas I've been in the mood to declutter, declutter. We've made a stop at the goodwill donation drop off almost every week. Not to mention the toys/trinkets/trash that have been dropped into the trash. The more stuff we get out of our house, the better I feel. And the better our rooms look. Sometimes it's hard to let go of things. I put things into a bag and then let them sit in the garage for a week or two and if we don't notice/don't miss them being gone, we let it go (no one has even missed a thing I've bagged up.)
Perry has begun ABA therapy. We go three days a week for two hour long sessions. The first week was so rough. After two days we had gone through one column out of three of the preference assessment. He spent the majority of the time screaming, spitting, throwing things, and hitting, and occasionally calming down in my arms until they tried to get him to work again. Week two is better than one. The therapist took a step back from the original plan and so he is working into it all slowly. As hard as it is right now, we know this will be good for him in the long run.
E has been really busy at work the last few weeks. Late nights for him mean dinners by myself with the kids. By dinnertime, I am often oh so tired to begin with. And meal times are hardly easy right now. So I've been relying on music to recharge, help everyone calm down, and bring in some fun. We pulled out a CD player and some of our old CD's to listen to (oldies, Jimmy Eat World, Nat King Cole, the mix CD) while we clean up dinner and then dance to when we are done. We take turns choosing which CD to play. Kacin says he loves rock music.
There was real sunshine yesterday and it was still light outside at 6:30pm! So we headed out back to play until E got home.
The boys performance of Alice in Wonderland is this weekend. They have had play practices nearly every day the last few weeks. We are looking forward to the show!
Tuesday, March 11, 2014
our trip day 5, our sealing
The most important reason for taking our trip was to have family with us when Layla and Perry would be sealed to us for time and all eternity in the Temple--a house of the Lord. On February 18 we got to do just that. It was a beautiful day at the Newport Beach Temple.
I can't even put into words how peaceful and happy one feels gathered with family in a temple of God. To have all four of my children with us in the sealing room, two of them dressed all in white, like Eric and I, for the ceremony, was a beautiful experience that I don't think I will ever forget!
The sealing ceremony is pretty short, but I had no idea how Perry and Layla would act. I remembered 3-year-old Kacin, after he was sealed to us, climbing up onto the alter and jumping off before we could grab him, so I was a bit nervous as to how it would go. :) I had no need to be because Layla and Perry were both so calm in the sealing room. When it was time, the children came right up and placed their hands on our hands as we knelt at the alter. After those beautiful words were spoken to seal Layla and Perry to us, we were able to gather all of our children into hugs. I felt such joy and such love for each of these sweet kids and a wonderful husband to call my forever family.
We were so grateful to have some of our family there with us.
I just love candid shots of getting ready for the big smiles. :)
It was a perfect morning for our family.
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Monday, March 10, 2014
Sunday, March 9, 2014
First the Chick
About Me
I was 19 the day that Eric and I got married and I had my whole perfect life PLANNED out—a time table, a list of goals, EXPECTATIONS, and dreams. But LIFE gave me something EVEN BETTER than my limited vision and plans: a chance to learn and grow and BECOME by experiencing infertility, foster care, adoption, special needs (autism) parenting, breast cancer, and more. Our lives are often challenging, PAINFUL, and complicated, yet it is no doubt that they are GLORIOUS, wonderful, and exciting, too. Our EXPERIENCES, the ones we DELIBERATELY seek out and the ones we would never have picked but we have to MUDDLE through anyways, SHAPE us. We CHOOSE what that shape will look like in the end by our ATTITUDE and our willingness to EMBRACE the moments of life. For it is the MOMENTS that DEFINE us. I choose to WALK FORWARD in the BRIGHTNESS of hope by noticing those moments, LEARNING as much as I can, SEEKING the good, and TRUSTING in a loving God.
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